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Why Do I Push Guys Away..?

Postby Vandenberg » Sat Oct 07, 2017 5:21 pm

Whenever I like a guy really badly and he starts to show any interest in me, I push him away. It's like i lose all interest. It becomes awkward and stupid and all I wanna do is hide from him because I feel like my feelings are overwhelming or like I'm emberrassed of something.

I don't know what the issue is.

I tried to keep going, to shut the pushing away off and just keep going to see where it goes but i can't make myself like somebody I don't like any longer.

I don't understand why this happens. I'm not insecure, I'm emotionally stable...

I trust people.

The only thing I can remember is that my father left when I was 6 and just a few years ago started displaying interest in my life again. No, he is a reaaally good father now. Honestly, he actually cares, i can see it. And he applogized.

So what can be an issue? Why do I push guys that I LIKE away as soon as they start to like me back??

And no I'm not a lesbian (for sure)

Im 16, by the way
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Postby Kerwin » Mon Oct 09, 2017 1:03 am

I suppose it may be because of your father. Even though he is back.in your life now he wasn't for years and that has left its mark. On some subconscious level you probably do not want to let guys close enough to you that they may one day leave you and hurt you like your father did. It's a trust issue but if you maybe get to know a guy better before going in a romantic direction you might be able to take that leap of faith. The fact that you know have a relationship with your father may help with you trusting guys. However you still may have some unresolved issues with regard to your dad so maybe have a big heart to heart with him or talk to a counselor. It's hard for everyone to open their heart and be vulnerable. I'm sure if you look inside and really become in tune with your thoughts you'll be able to figure out who you are and allow others into your heart. William Burroughs once said that if we relax and really listen to our thoughts we will find the answers to most of our questions!!!!
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Postby carthach » Wed Oct 11, 2017 5:38 am

actually some teenagers have more raging hormones then others in this age you don't know what you want you will keep changing your mind about anything it's ok to have these things

so don't worry, an advice , when you dont have the interest in a guy anymore just push yourself

by time he'll show you more things about him that you'll like an get you to get in a relationship with him.

hope this helps :)
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Postby Asaph » Wed Oct 11, 2017 4:35 pm

U may get the best answer for ur such problem if u ask ur father. And follow his advices properly.
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