My ex-boyfriend broke up with me because I kinda cheated on him. Though, I didn't have sex with that other guy. We just went out 2 or 3 times and I didn't tell him. He caught us hugging and kissing. He comes from a rich family. I love my ex. We lived together in his mansion for 4 years. He used to pay all the utility bills, cable/internet/tv bills, grocery, property taxes, maintenance, his cars' insurances, etc. I just paid for my car insurance, my shopping, my cellphone bill, etc.

The mansion and his two cars (Bentley and Range Rover) are both under his name. There are no mortgages, or car payments. All the payments have been made. He owns everything. So basically, I lived with him for free and it was fine with him because he said he could afford it and I didn't really increase his expenses when I moved in with him.

Last week, I lost my job because I arrived 30 minutes late. I'm jobless and I'm currently living with my best friend and her boyfriend. I sleep in the living room because it's a 1 bedroom apartment. I just moved in last week.

My question is ...

Can I take my ex-boyfriend to court and ask for my share in his property? Do I have any right over his property because I lived with him 4 years and we had sex, etc. All the furniture, appliances, and pretty much all the stuff in that mansion is owned by him and he had it all BEFORE I moved in with him. He told me that he has every single receipt.

So, what should I do? His family's net worth is over a million because the mansion is over 1.5 million. That's what he told me. I'm sure he has money in his bank account. Do I have any right over it? Do I have ANY right over his property, money, cars, etc? I mean, I lived with him for 4 years and almost like a wife. Though, I didn't change my name and we don't have any kids together.

By the way, I live in Los Angeles, California and so does he, if that helps ....

Thanks.

What should you do? You should send him a Thank you card for taking care of your sorry butt for so long.

Doesn't matter where you live either. You were a gf, not a wife.

How does someone "kinda" cheat? You lied and were sneaking around. That is cheating.

You blew it, babe!! You lied to and cheated on this guy (yes, it was cheating), then lost your job because YOU were irresponsible, so now you want to get HIM to pay you off? For what? Sex for the 4 years you lived with him? That would make you a prostitute.

It doesn't matter how much money he and his family have...YOU were the one who ruined the relationship, so now you have to live with it.

Just for the record: 4 years doesn't even constitute a common law marriage, so don't even try it. Let it go. It's not his fault that you are broke. You did that to yourself. Accept it and move on.

You get to go out and get another job and you should do it asap. You are not entitled to one red dime, you where just a shack up, and gave it all away. You exchanged sex for living high. Should have thought about all that when you started to mess around.

You can not take your ex boyfriend to court. You are not his wife and he is not legally obligated to support you financially. You have not contributed financially to obtain any of his real estate, account balances or other luxury items. You only used them at your convenience during the relationship.

The moment this relationship is over you are on your own again.

Stop going after his money. You did nothing to obtain this money and have no right to a single penny of it.

Hopefully he sees your post... because he has been posting the opposite question. You can quit the false threats now. We all know there is no attorney willing to take on such a case. California does not acknowledge "common law marriages" and you have no grounds for a Marvin claim. None of the money that was used to obtain his riches has ever come from your contributions. That means you can not get alimony when you are not a contributing partner.

He has willingly supported you for the last 4 years and the unwritten contract between the two of you was that you are his partner and lover. You broke this deal by cheating and he broke up with you. You are now faced with the financial consequences and need to move on.

i am so happy to hear this that you got punishment for your cheating....that lets me believe that god still exist..
sory my dear slut you won't any piece of money from his side..

California does not have common law marriage. Unfortunately you are out of luck in that department.

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