My mom and dad broke up again, they were married and divorced before, and before i lived with my mom for 15 years, so i wanted to live with my dad and she began ognoring me, wouldnt say love you back after call of talking. She wouldnt talk to me, and then when we were out, she cancelled my insurance and said its my problem, she canceled a paid for surgery im having this week and said she wont drive me, but shell meet me there. (its about 1-2 hours away). She deleted my phone, wrote me off in her life insurance. And so i told my cousin cause were close, and he ******* told his mom and she told my mom. Now she texted me on my new phone and said how dare i say she disowned me, she kicked us out cause my dad and nothing about being an *** and canceling my things. She said why would i tell others about this, when she lies to everyone she knows anout why were moving out like we hate her, or that we want to do drugs... **** like that, i dont know what to tell her. We moved out because my mom drinks, and is mostly angry and takes it out on us. Shes tried giving me away, sending me to military camp, boarding school. She wanted my dad out right away, and eviction takes 4-5 weeks so she told the court my dad is violent, that he is an angry abusive man who has guns and shes scared for her life so the moved it up to 5 days. She claimed i hate her and ignored me for a week till i moved out, then when i told her news about moving out, she would say im lying. She does **** like that and it just edges you to really want to leave. How do i respond to her text, here it is.

"why are you telling people i dispwned you, you know thats not true i would never do that (keep in mind how shes tried sending me away), i wanted your dad gone not u guys, you mean everything to me and are my heart, you chose to leave, this is not over because i will necer turn custody over to your dad EVER!

I dont know how to respond, help please

Your mom is going through a terrible time and you are caught in the middle. It's going to take some time for this storm to blow over. Stay out the way and don't take things personal, because you will get hurt. Your mom is displacing her emotions. She's angry at the dad and you are with the dad. It makes you part of the same club. Stay neutral. Good luck!

Nothing honestly if that was me id ignore her like she did me. She's acting like a immature brat and you shouldn't get punished for it.

It’s not what we say, it’s the things we do in this life that define us.

It’s not what we say, it’s the things we do in this life that define us.

Your mother, unfortunately, is a toxic parent. Don't be mad at your cousin for telling his mom. It's not him that caused the problem. It's your mother and being an alcoholic, she will deny anything she have done. I'd strongly suggest that you join Children of Alcoholic support group meetings. There are other people who are or have gone through the same thing you've did. They can offer various of tips based on real life about how to deal with this. You can argue with your mother until your blue in the face, but your best bet is to get out of that kind of environment. Sometimes, we are often faced with a decision to disown the person if they're treating us like this. Your mother is very sick and she's taking it out on you. Break the pattern of abuse. Good luck, hun.

"Shes tried giving me away, sending me to military camp, boarding school."

That's your very, very childish interpretation, luckily, adults term such actions.
Let me guess-- dad is far more permissive with a lot more money to give his little brat anything she wants, and mom is the disciplinarian you butt heads with.
Stop being a self-centered drama queen; just because she got a mad-on doesn't mean she disowned you, that is a legal term and action. Try putting yourself in her shoes, selfish-prig-who-can-decide-where-she-wa… and quit with the histrionics.
Seriously, growTFU, you ingrate. You haven't missed a meal, slept in the rain or been without Internet access, have you?
Count your blessing and stop being an a s s.

Has your dad retained a lawyer yet? If so it would be a good idea to talk to the lawyer about possibly meeting with the judge or getting a child advocate to represent you and your siblings to make sure you are protected and properly cared for.

Ask your dad to reschedule the surgery and go with you if your mom is being such a jerk.