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My Mom Bully's My Boyfriend?

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My Mom Bully's My Boyfriend?

Postby Bordon » Sat Oct 07, 2017 6:11 pm

Well currently my mom is in a bad financial situation. She works 2 jobs and has to pay apartment rent which $800 a month plus bills. I have a job but I only get 13 hours a week and that goes to my gas tank and my phone bill and insurance. My mom used to have good income, but when she met my stepdad he told her to stop working because he made enough money to provide for her, me , and my little sister. When my stepdad business income started to slow down him and my mom would fight and my mom moved us out. Now we are past due on rent my stepdad couldn't help and our cable and lights are off. My mom texted my boyfriend asking him for $1400 to help her and she would pay him back. I kindly asked her why she asked him for it since he barely makes much money and she flips! She cursed me out and everything. And called him a selfish crybaby and such. I'm afraid to go home because she screams really loud and I get anxiety attacks. I'm 19 but I don't want to move out with no good job. My boyfriend said can move in but I don't want her to disown me. I was so stressed about this today I failed my interview with an insurance company today. Someone advice please!!
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My Mom Bully's My Boyfriend?

Postby Braen » Sun Oct 08, 2017 6:45 am

You probably would have been better off not interfering with something that is basically between your mother and your boyfriend.


As regards your interview, phone your insurance company, explain you were having anxiety issues because of personal problems, and ask if you can redo the interview. If they won't let you, simply try another insurance company.


Your mother's problems are your mother's problems.
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Postby Rowen » Sun Oct 08, 2017 8:41 am

Find a better job and move out. Your mother is poison. Let her disown you; you'd be better off.
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Postby Alun » Sun Oct 08, 2017 10:11 am

Get another job and work more hours
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Postby Elkin » Mon Oct 09, 2017 4:35 pm

Although I am sympathetic towards your mother, she has no right to be angry with you.
You aren't responsible for her financial troubles.

If I were your boyfriend, *no way* I'd lend her that money.
He'll never see it again.

Advice? Get a different job - even if it's a $hitty one - that gives you 40 hours.
If I were you, I'd also take my boyfriend up on his offer.
Even if you contribute to your mother's household financially, with you on your own, it can only save her a little money.
And then - no screaming at you.
I doubt she'd disown you, and even if she did so in anger? I expect eventually, she'd change her tune.
I've no doubt she loves you - but it sounds like life has been pretty stressful for all of you.
It's all too easy to take that stress out on the people closest to us.

Sorry.
Get a better job, and find a way to live separately.
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Postby Efren » Wed Oct 11, 2017 8:59 pm

young love
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