Okay, I have been married for about 7 years and I have two children a 16 year old son from previous marriage and a 5 year old daughter with current marriage.
I always worked but got layoff in may of 2010 due to bad economy and I'm having a hard time getting a job, but looking everyday.
I get enough unemployment money to pay my bills and out of the same money I buy 700.00 in groceries a month for all 4 of us, buy clothing for my children, pay my car, car insurance, my cell phone bill, that's all I can afford, I have nothing left for myself, not even for nails or even an ice cream for my daughter.
In the other hand he makes close to 100 thousand dollars a year and he has multiple bank
accounts and savings bonds, life insurance that the beneficiary is only his son from previous marriage all under his name only and don't want me to be apart of it.
He never buys me anything, EVER, very verbal abusive and does not have any respect for me or my children.
I left him already 5 times and ended up coming back just to make life a little easier for my children, but it's taking a tool on me and I'm about to snap again and leave, but this time out of state just to make sure I don't go back, I please ask, is it me expecting to much from a man that promised me to take care of me and my family for better or worse?
He never takes me out and when I ask to go out to eat it has to be the cheapest restaurant buffet available in town even knowing that he has thousands of dollars in the banks, I only go out to go grocery shopping or gym and he always says that I'm working out so I can screw men, never mind the accusations with every single boss that I had, men or women, he has a problem with everything I do and I'm going crazy, i can't stand him anymore
I workout, I look great and I know I can find someone pretty fast that can take care of me and my children
I take care of the kids, house cleaning, laundry and cooking everyday.
I don't mind do anything for us but I know if I dint have any money coming that he would not pay for any of my bills, like he says "I'm a burden on his life"
I'm tired of him and his mouth, greed and controlling ways.
I can get a job in the state that I'm planing to go and live a happier life alone or with someone that cares for me and my children.
Now I ask, should I just leave? Or stay?
PS. I already try to tell him how I feel but he is not willing to help me, like he says, his money is not my money.